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Men who dominate women who appease

  From the Author to You    
       
1 Men Who Dominate   8
    A Fear and Anger Problem  
    Feelings Come and Feelings Go  
    Hey, Dave!  I'm Not Near that Bad  
    Who Is Parenting Whom?  
    Dominance: the Way to Be the Center of Attentio  
    How Do I Stop?  
    You Could Start Right Here, Right Now  
    Can a Guy Really, Really Change?  


2 Women Who Appease   37
    Is This You?  
    "I Could Never Tell My Mother That.  It Would Kill Her!"  
    But Wait!  He Doesn’t Do It All the Time  
    This Marriage Will Not Just Be Saved.  It's About to Improve—a Lot!  
    The View Worldwide  
    The Effects on Your Children  
    New Limits, New Rules, New Boundaries  
    You Can Do This, I Know You Can  


3 Developing and Using Your Personal Power   68
    Fair and Healthy  
    The Rug Exercise   
    When We Don't Feel Good About Ourselves    
    Using Your Personal Power Instead of Gossiping  
    Some Not-So-Healthy Ways We Might Try to Use to Manipulate Others  


4 Finding Your Way to Wellness       100
    Will You go First?  
    If You Are the Fearful Woman  
    Speaking Genuinely—Right From Your Heart  
    What Are You Prepared to Do Next?  
    Staying Because You Are Afraid of What He Would Do If You Left  
    First Tip: Be Done With Blame  
    Second Tip: Say What You Want to Hear  


5 Conclusion: Dave's Brief History of the Universe    124
    Knowing Is Not the Same as Doing…  
    …And Doing Means Doing What is Effective and Producing Helpful, Healthy Results  
       
    Appendix:  Abusive Behaviors a Dominator Must Stop, And an Appeaser Must Challenge  
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