From the Author to You  

How many happy marriages do you know of?  How many healthy families do you number among your friends?  How many families are staying together—and staying miserable—in loveless marriages "for the sake of the children?"

Maybe that doesn't describe you.  Or, maybe it does. 

Maybe up until now you haven't been able to do any better than just endure.  But I believe this book can show you how to get unstuck from some common, unhealthy patterns you and your mate may have fallen into.  Please read it with an open mind and a receptive heart.

This might be your best chance.

Maybe your marriage is about to get a lot better.  Maybe you are about to thrive and glow, and build a life you love—for your children and with them.  Perhaps you are just about to show them how to cope and triumph joyously.  I hope so.

I don't think we can save all the marriages, or all the families.  But we can each save our own!  And we can help one of two of those around us.  Maybe we can even be a healthy influence on our young friends who are courting. 

With best wishes for you and your family,